Wisconsin Clearinghouse for Missing and Exploited Children and Adults
1-800-THE-HOPE :: 17 W. Main St. Madison, WI :: wimissingpersons@doj.state.wi.us

Safety Information

Child/Teen Safety

Parent Safety Tips

College Student Safety

Internet Safety

Child/Teen Safety Information

The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's website: www.missingkids.com.

Publications

Know the Rules
Three key safety messages for teens
 
Know the Rules...After-School Safety Tips for Children Who Are Home Alone
Important points parents should consider prior to allowing their child to be unsupervised after school
 
Know the Rules...Child Safety for Door-to-Door Solicitation
Child-safety guidelines for children participating in door-to-door solicitation
 
Know the Rules...For Child Safety in Amusement or Theme Parks
Steps for parents and children to take when in an amusement or theme park
 
Know the Rules...For Child Safety in Youth Sports
Guidelines for parents whose children participate in sports activities
 
Know the Rules...For Going To and From School More Safely
Tips to help parents prepare their children for a safer journey to and from school
 
Know the Rules...For Holidays
Safety tips for the holidays and when shopping
 
Know the Rules...Safety Tips for Halloween
Safety tips for a more fun and safe Halloween
 
Know the Rules...School Safety Tips
Safety tips for children when at school
 
Know the Rules...Summer Safety Tips for Children
Safety tips for a more fun and safe summer
 
Know the Rules...Traveling Outside of and to the United States
Preparation and safety tips designed to help make traveling outside of and to the United States safer
 
Know the Rules...When Your Child Is Flying Unaccompanied
Rules to help make the flying experience for your child safer
 
Know the Rules...When Your Child Is Traveling Unaccompanied by Bus or Train
Rules to help make travel by bus or train safer for your child
 
Safety Tips for the Holiday Season

New Neighborhood Safety Tips

Interactive Safety Quizzes for Children & Teens

Interactive Safety Quizzes

 

Parent Safety Tips

Publications

Know the Rules...General Parental Tips to Help Keep Your Children Safer (PDF file)

Know the Rules...Abduction and Kidnapping Prevention Tips for Parents
Provides straightforward safety tips and guidelines for parents to consider when talking to their children about personal safety along with recommendations to better safeguard homes and surroundings
Page One (PDF file)
Page Two (PDF file)

Parent Tips

Tips for parents if your child is missing

Basic Rules of Safety for Children

"8 Rules For Safety"

Parent Recordkeeping

IF YOUR CHILD IS MISSING

Immediately call or go to your local law enforcement agency (police or sheriff) and file a missing person report. When a child is missing and believed to be in danger, there is no 24-hour waiting period in Wisconsin.

Bring the most recent color photograph of the child, along with the child's fingerprints, hair sample, blood type, and physical description including a description of the clothes the child was wearing.
Click Here for more information about Amber Alert Plan criteria.

Information about your missing child will automatically be entered into the National Crime Information Center computer's Missing Person File (NCIC-MPF).

Report the child missing to the toll-free hotline of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) at 1-800-843-5678. The National Center can issue e-mail alerts about your missing child, distribute posters with your child's photo and information nationwide, and provide support and other resources for you and your family.

Be alert to a teenager or adult who is paying an unusual amount of attention to your children or giving them inappropriate or expensive gifts.

Contact other non-profit missing child organizations and state clearinghouses in adjacent states. Register your missing child and find out what other search assistance and support services they can provide.

Contact the U.S. State Department's Passport Office (Office of Citizen Appeals and Legal Assistance, Passport Services) at 202-647-0518 in case the suspect tries to apply for a passport to leave the country with your child.

Be sensitive to changes in your children's behavior; they are a signal that you should sit down and talk to your children about what caused the changes.

Teach your children to trust their own feelings and assure them that they have the right to say no to what they sense is wrong.

BASIC RULES OF SAFETY FOR CHILDREN

As soon as your children can articulate a sentence, they can begin the process of learning how to protect themselves against abduction and exploitation.

Children should be taught if you are in a public place and you get separated from your patents, don't wander around looking for them. Go to a checkout counter, the security office, or the lost and found and quickly tell the person in charge that you have lost your mom and dad and need help finding them.

You should not get into a car or go anywhere with any person unless your parents have told you that it is okay.

If someone follows you on foot or in a car, stay away from him or her. You should not get close to any car, unless your parent or a trusted adult accompanies you.

Grownups and others who need help should not be asking children for help; they should be asking older people.

No one should be asking you for directions or to look for a "lost puppy" or telling you that your mother or father is in trouble and that he or she will take you to them.

If someone tries to take you somewhere, quickly get away from him (or her) and yell or scream. "This man (woman) is trying to take me away" or "this person is not my father (mother)."

You should try to take a friend with you, and never go places alone.

Always ask your parents' permission to leave the yard or play area or to go into someone's home.

Never hitchhike or try to get a ride home with anyone unless your parents have told you it is okay to ride with him or her.

No one should touch you in the parts of the body that would be covered by a bathing suit, nor should you touch anyone else in those areas. Your body is special and private.

You can be assertive and you have the right to say no to someone who tries to take you somewhere, touches you, or makes you feel uncomfortable, scared or confused in anyway.

8 RULES FOR SAFETY

  1. Traditional messages of "Don't take candy from strangers," "Don't be a tattletale," and "Be respectful to adults, they know what they're doing" are incomplete and can lead to the abduction and sexual victimization of children. Children and families do not have to live in fear of these crimes, but they do need to be alert, cautious, and prepared. The key to child safety is communication. A child's best weapon against victimization is his or her ability to think and preparation to respond to potentially dangerous situations. By learning and following these 8 Rules for Safety, children can empower themselves with the skills, knowledge, and abilities to better protect themselves.
  2. Before I go anywhere, I always check first with my parents or the person in charge. I tell them where I am going, how I will get there, who will be going with me, and when I'll be back.
  3. I check first for permission from my parents before getting into a car or leaving with anyone - even someone I know. I check first before changing plans or accepting money, gifts, or drugs with out my parents' knowledge.
  4. It is safer for me to be with other people when going places or playing outside. I always use the "buddy system."
  5. I say NO if someone tries to touch me in ways that make me feel frightened, uncomfortable, or confused. Then I go and tell a grown-up I trust what happened.
  6. I know it is not my fault if someone touches me in a way that is not O.K. I don't have to keep secrets about those touches.
  7. I trust my feelings and talk to grown-ups about problems that are too big for me to handle on my own. A lot of people care about me and will listen and believe me. I am not alone.
  8. It is never too late to ask for help. I can keep asking until I get the help I need.

I am a special person, and I deserve to feel safe. My rules are:

CHECK FIRST

USE THE "BUDDY SYSTEM"

SAY NO, THEN GO AND TELL

LISTEN TO MY FEELINGS, AND TALK WITH GROWN-UPS I TRUST ABOUT MY PROBLEMS AND CONCERNS.

PARENT RECORD KEEPING

Keep current identification on each child (such as a recent photo, video, fingerprints, hair sample, blood type, identifying marks, and physical description) in a safe accessible place.

Know how to obtain your child's dental x-rays and medical records.

 

Internet Safety

NetSmartz
The NetSmartz Workshop teaches children how to be safer when using the Internet
www.netsmartz.org

Publications

Blog Beware
Tips for families about safer blogging
 
Child Safety on the Information Highway
Safety tips for families whose elementary-school-aged children use computer online services
 
Cyberspace Strategy
Issue brief by NCMEC President and Chief Executive Officer Ernie Allen
 
CyberTipline: Your Resource for Reporting the Sexual Exploitation of Children
Information regarding NCMEC's CyberTipline
 
Know the Rules...Internet Safety Quiz for Adults
Tips for parents on how to make their children's online visits safer
 
NetSmartz Brochure
Information on this innovative web site that educates children about online safety
 
Online Victimization: A Report on the Nation's Youth
Groundbreaking national survey focusing on children's use of the Internet
 
Your Kids Can Fill in the Blanks. Can You?
Tips on how families can help protect their children from online sexual exploitation

Cyber TipLine
Handles leads from individuals reporting the sexual exploitation of children.

Interactive Safety Quizzes

Internet Safety Tips for Teens

Internet Safety Tips for Kids

Additional Child Safety Resources

Childquest International Childquest International
http://childquest.org/cqsafetytips.php
General Child Safety Tips, School Safety, Internet Safety
Take25 Take25
http://www.take25.org/page.asp?page=89
General Child Safety Tips
Polly Klaas Polly Klaas Foundation
http://www.pollyklaas.org/
Abduction and Runaway information, General Child Safety, Internet Safety

Missing From Wisconsin

Home :: WIMEC Info :: Law Enforcement :: Safety
Parents :: Educators :: About Abduction :: Runaway Info :: Sexual Exploitation
FAQs :: Statistics :: Resources :: Contact


WI Department of Justice


WI Division of Criminal Investigation


WI Sex Offender Registry


Violent Criminal Apprehension Program


NetSmartz Workshop


Hayden Panettiere
2 SMRT 4U


Take25